I've come to the conclusion that all guys are the same. Not in personality or looks, but in the fact that they all seem to believe in one simple equation:

Compliments + Sentimentality = Clear way into the pants.

You can tell me that I'm beautiful all you want (even though I despise compliments), or tell me how you can't believe that guys have never thought about "doing that with me" (referring to my lack of sexual activity), but don't think that because of this I'm going to bend over and let you have your way with me. It's not going to get you any action. Especially if I've never shown any kind of interest in you before. It especially bothers me that guys seem to think that because I'm a virgin, I'm just willing to go out and get 'er done. Sorry boys, but that's just not the way I want things to get done. I don't necessarily think love and sex are exclusive, but there definitely should be some sort of trust and commitment established before approaching the situation for the first time. If that wasn't the case, I'm sure I would have gotten it over with in high school or picked up a random from the bar.

I'm not ashamed to admit to being a virgin, but it does bug me when people just assume that I'm not, even though they know I've never been in a relationship. I know this is hypocritical, but I hate being judged, or when people make assummptions about certain parts of my life.

I'm even more skeptical about dating than most girls, because I know a lot of guys are interested in sexual relationships, and I'm forced to find a good guy that will stick around until I'm ready, instead of brushing me off.